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Thrifty Couple Myth Busters: Help! I Am Using Coupons BUT Spending More!

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by thriftycas on January 24, 2012

Have you experienced this?

Do you run into this dilemma?

Has your spouse ever said “What are you doing?  You are spending all of this time to use coupons, but you are spending more money!”

Well, this is actually a real and true scenario that plagues many would-be couponers.  In fact, this is a risk for even the best of couponers!  Believe it or not…… There is actually a WRONG and a RIGHT way to use coupons!

First, before we share the real and right way, let us tell you about the wrong way.  Many years ago, Alex and I were attempting to cut expenses in every area of life in an effort to rid ourselves of the mountain of debt we accumulated the previous 4 years of our marriage.   One way that we assumed was the way to drop your grocery budget was by using coupons.

Here’s what we would do:

  • We would shave the items on our grocery list to the bare minimum
  • Spend time searching for coupons (times does equal money)
  • Spend money to get the coupons (buying the newspaper, often in multiples)
  • Cut those coupons out and head to the store.

When we would arrive at the store, we would stand in the aisle and compare all of the products on the shelf.   Here’s where the rubber met the road…… we would stand there and compare the name-brand price plus coupon with the price of the generic item.  At least 90% of the time, we would find the generic to still be cheaper than the name brand with the coupon! Our efforts, time and plan was failing – all with more money fruitlessly spent to try saving money! It wasn’t working! How do others use coupons and make them work??

We would both leave the store irritated and exasperated! If we had purchased the items we planned with the coupons, our bill would have been about 20% higher.

So here’s where the real truth lies – buying generic items is going to generally yield greater savings than name-brand with the coupons.  It’s true – there’s no myth about this!!

So why even bother with coupons if that is the case?  Well, we wanted to share with you the flip-side and a big epiphany for our family and budget once we figured it out!

You can use coupons on sale priced items and get those rock bottom deals to make them much lower (sometimes FREE) than the generic counter parts! Taking advantage of these extra savings is really the only way to use coupons. It is best to use your coupons on a rock-bottom sale.  What we mean by this is items will go on different sale levels throughout the year, but about 2-3 times per year, nearly every item will hit a rock-bottom price.  You want to try and catch the rock-bottom sale with your coupons at that time.  Nearly every week, there will be a handful of items that would be considered a rock-bottom sale and you can stock-up at this time!

Here’s an illustration to explain how this works.  This is from our observation and calculations from watching the sales and retail trends over the last several years – its not official or scientific but what we consider as real life:

understanding store prices

Let us demonstrate this concept with Quaker Oatmeal (this was a real scenario at one time that we took advantage of, but of course it will be different each week).

  • Buy the oatmeal today at retail price of $3.99 – If you were to go and buy this oatmeal today off the shelf, it would be an average of $3.99 per box – final price $3.99
  • Use the $1/1 coupon often found online or newspaper off the retail price – This is still a terrible deal (in our opinion) because if you take a moment to compare the products on the shelf, you will probably find that the generic was only $1.99 – a lot cheaper than the name brand with the coupon. – final price $2.99
  • Combine the $1/1 coupon with the rock-bottom sale price – Wait for the cart-buster sale (e.g., the 10 for $10 sale that occurs 2-3 times per year) where the item is $1 .  Now, when we combine the sale price with our $1/1 coupon(s) it made it FREE! – final price FREE!

Free items are more rare – honestly, you will typically end up with an average of 60-80% savings – certainly nothing to scoff at!

By shopping this way, your budget for your groceries will drop significantly! This is the age old secret that couponers use :)

And when we say groceries, we include household items, toiletries, diapers/wipes, pet care/food and more everyday items as these same rules apply to all of these categories.  Pretty much everything you would find in a regular large grocery store!

How many can you get for FREE?  It will depend on how many coupons you have.  If you subscribe to multiple newspapers, are able to print coupons and other various ways to get coupons, then this will determine how many you can get for that FREE price.  And now that you are saving this large amount of money, those coupon resources (newsapers, cost to print coupons and your time) start to become much more worth it!  Just think, if you spend 2 hours preparing for a trip, saved $100, then your $50 per hour was well worth it (or even $40 per hour if you factor in cost of resources)!  We will be talking about coupon resources more later, but this is just to help you understand the differences between the right and wrong ways to use coupons!

Do you see that if you used your coupon to get them for $2.99 (especially when the generic was $1.99), that you paid a lot more in the end and wasted your coupon, money and time?!

The main point of this post is to give you the tip to hang on to your coupons and only use them when an item goes on sale so that you can actually experience real grocery savings from using coupons!

Now there is another way in which a coupon by itself will save you more than buying generic, even without a sale. It is on those high value coupons or FREE product coupons that we will post here on our site when they are available.  This is important to note, but these coupons are rare coupons and are usually to help introduce you to a product, but as a norm, you will not be able to have a huge impact on your grocery budget by counting on these high value coupons.

So the next question you may be asking is…… how will I know when an item goes on sale and when to finally use the coupons! And this is a very good and very reasonable question.

There are a couple of ways:

  1. If there is a deal that will yield a good savings, we will post them on our site in individual posts.  Watch for these continuous posts with tips on how to combine the coupon with sale price if its a product your family uses.  You can also search for specific deals in our search box.
  2. Use our Grocery Shopping Lists with Coupon Matchups section of our site HERE.  The great part is that we have several printable lists for many grocery stores as well as Walmart, Target, Walgreens, CVS and Rite Aid.  You can see the lists HERE (choose your state and store from the drop down menu).  These store lists do include the items that are in the ad, but not everything in the ad is the rock bottom sale price (as this only happens 2-3 times per year for that product).  So, you will see a stock-up scale listed on these lists to help you decide when it is a good time to stock-up.  This scale is represented by the star rating each item is given.  4 & 5 stars are the times to stock-up on that item!

So, hopefully we have helped explain this myth and shown that although there can be truth to the statement “Help! I am using coupons BUT spending More Money,” that at the same time it can be false as well!  It is all about context. ;)

We do understand that this does not entirely answer every question, nor did we intend to be exhaustive on the subject, but we wanted to cover a very specific question that many people have about their experience with using coupons.

What other questions, concerns, comments or other statement do you have in regards to the above topic?  What other issues would you like us to address?  AND remember that you receive an entry into our monthly $25 Amazon gift card giveaway for leaving a comment ;

Alex and Cassie

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Join Us for Our Facebook Chat with ALL YOU Magazine on Including the Whole Family with Your Finances

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by thriftyal on January 11, 2012

We’re excited about an awesome opportunity on Thursday, January 12th at 2PM EST to share some amazing tips and discuss with everyone the subject of including the whole family in your finances.  You know we are a family of seven and we love including our whole family when we plan our year’s finances as well as when we implement our actions to meet our goals as well!  The format will be a Facebook chat and will be hosted on ALL YOU magazine’s Facebook page.

We would love to have you join us – plus here are some links you can use from ALL YOU to help you with some of your financial questions as well.

Organize Your Financial Documents
Disarray can be costly – organize paperwork once and for all. This system can help you locate records when needed, reduce chances of identity theft and simplify filing come tax time.

Handy Tips for an Organized Home
These simple methods can help clear clutter without a lot of work.  Here’s a five step plan to a mess free home (plus how to keep it that way).

How to Live on Less
ALL YOU offers a handy money-saving guide featuring how to save on everything from home improvement to kids’ activities.

Alex and Cassie

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How to Save on the Way to the 2012 Family Economics Conference in Chicago

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by thriftyal on January 5, 2012

Have you seen this little piggy?  Just a little bit ago we opened our email and found in it another announcement of the upcoming 2012 Family Economics conference in Chicago just a couple of short months away!  If you remember from when we first announced this conference, we shared that it was at the first annual Family Economics conference that we really solidified our vision for my leaving the corporate world and coming home to work with my family in many of our business ventures.  We would have never dreamed that just two short years later we would have been asked to come to the conference to share practical ways and tips to help families save money and stretch their budgets in every area of life!

So let us help you by piggy-backing off the great tips that Generations with Vision already shared by sharing them with you and adding a couple of our own!

#1. Start following our site and learning all the great tips and money-saving advice now (before the conference)!

So first, if you are new to our site we want to wish you a warm welcome!  But we don’t want you to just wait for the conference to get some great tips and advice.  We want you to start saving now to help get you to the conference for less!  We wouldn’t be The Thrifty Couple if we didn’t share with you tips now on how to do it for less and start saving money now.

We invite you to join our fun community on Facebook where you get links to the latest on our site – but even more so, you can join in on the discussions!  We love our community and LOVE the comments!  Plus we post exclusive deals, coupons and samples on Facebook so make sure to like us to get it all!

Join the Discussion on Facebook

Plus, don’t miss out on our daily newsletter where you get all our tips, deals and articles in one place! Just click HERE to start your FREE subscription! Please confirm your subscription (a confirmation email will be sent to you that you will need to click through to confirm that you would like to receive emails from us)!

#2. Make sure to register and use promotion code ThriftyCouple to save you $20 off your registration!

We love saving money here and wouldn’t be consistent unless we shared with you how to save on your registration for the conference!  As we mention above, simply click here to go to the conference site, and when you sign up use code ThriftyCouple to sign up!

#3. Write about it on your own blog and get a discount!

Do you have your own family blog?  Generations with Vision is offering you $25 off your family registration or $5 off your personal registration just for sharing on your blog (let us know if you do so we can get you in contact with the right person to get your discount)!  Of course, we would love it if you mentioned that you can’t wait to meet us, but with the awesome lineup of speakers we understand if you don’t.  :)

#4. Check out many of our tips on how to save on your road trip to Chicago including the drive, accommodations and food!

Two years ago we shared a number of articles on how to save on your many stages of a road trip:

  • Make sure to prepare your vehicle for the trip.  Its not much fun to be stuck on the side of the road (not to mention not thrifty with cost of tow truck and small town mechanic).  Besides, you don’t want to miss the first day of the conference!
  • We share some great tips on the actual drive itself!  From setting a budget to the food on the trip you will want to read this.  We even have a small section to prevent everyone in the car from going crazy with some ideas for in-car activities too! And yes, the little picture of our daughter eating her french fry was on our way to the Family Economics conference back in 2010!
  • Even though we all know the price of gas is astronomical, if you have a family (and a large one at that) you know the cost of lodging can be through the roof!  Make sure to check out our list of tips and tricks to help reduce the cost of motel or hotel as well!
  • Before you read this next part and just close the browser claiming we don’t know what we’re talk about we ask you to read it in full – stay at a timeshare or condo!  We share tips (not on buying a timeshare) but how to get those empty and overflow condos for much less!

So although you could hitchhike (you can see that tip in the original email), we really encourage you to check out these tips first!  :)

We invite you to come, gain a vision for your own family and meet with a large number of families doing the same!

Don’t forget to see our original post announcing the 2012 Family Economics conference for more details about the conference!

Alex and Cassie

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Step #1 in Developing Your Family Economy in 2012: Identifying Your Goals with FREE Download

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by thriftyal on January 3, 2012

We all know the new year is a time for making resolutions that are often broken and forgotten within just a few weeks.  But when a new year comes up for us, we try to look at it a bit differently.  How?  Think of our country, city or even a local business.  Each entity has a defined year and its own “economy”.  If you work for a company, you know the planning that occurs early in the fiscal year is important to meeting its fiscal goals.  You know the country or local government has a defined time period in which budgets are set for the year.  We see the family as another such entity and we look at the beginning of the year much in the same way as would a company or civil government.  Yes, instead of trying to set a number of resolutions, we look at the family as its own economy – and what better time than the first of the year to take a break from our busy lives and sit down to practically discuss and come up with the goals as we prepare for 2012.

We are compiling a set of resources that we have found useful in doing just that – helping you develop your family economy this year.  As every economy requires, you need to have incoming funds and outgoing funds (with the goal as the outgoing is less than the incoming :) ).  You need to identify the priorities of where you will spend your money.  But where we start here is helping you identify your goals for this year and initial, high level actions to meet those goals.  And as we mention in the questionnaire, we encourage you to sit down as a family to complete this task.  If you as a family can commit to establishing your economy you will be further along in the process of having a better financial future for not only your family now, but for future generations as well!

Snapshot of the Family Economy 2012 Questionnaire

Step 1: Identifying Your Family Economy Goals and Actions for 2012 (download the questionnaire here)

We encourage you to sit down with your family as you work through the following checklist. The goal of this is to help you start thinking outside of your daily, busy schedule and force you to work together on becoming intentional with your finances. We all know the adage: If you fail to plan, you plan to fail. And although it seems trite, we have found in our own experience just how true it is.

One of the most important lessons we learned in our own household is the idea of ensuring open communication and committing as a whole family to pursue this plan.

We recommend setting aside some time one evening as a family to enjoy together and as part of that take the time to work through this checklist. If that is too daunting, possibly try to work through it during a family meal. No matter how big or small, just try to do something. This is your checklist – do with it what you will! As one idea, prior to starting ask each family member the following questions:

  • Is everyone in the family willing to participate?
  • Are we ready to do an even better job this year (compared to previous years) with our budget?

Finally, keep this checklist as we want you to refer to it the full year. The making of the goals and decisions is the easy part – following through takes hard work, dedication and accountability. Are you ready to get started?

Download the questionnaire by clicking on this link!

Also join us this year at the 2012 Family Economics Conference in March where we were invited to share practical ways to help develop a family economy.  Plus make sure to check our promotion code to give you a discount on your registration (we want to help you save even on that) just for being a reader!

Stick with us as we will continue providing you our own personal resources for developing and maintaining a healthy family economy this year!  This is just the beginning!

Alex and Cassie

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Easily Earn $600 this Year Without Spending More and With Minimal Effort

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by thriftyal on January 2, 2012

With a new year upon us, its time to get back to normal life and make plans for your family’s budget and financial goals for 2012.  What if you could quickly and easily do something now to give your family an extra $600 this year alone? (based on the average spending for an American household)  What if the additional effort needed is by paying your everyday bills and expenses with a new card (a debit card of course)?!  Last year we shared with you an awesome way we earn cash back just by using our PerkStreet FinancialSM debit card – we learned about this from Dave Ramsey and after signing up (its FREE and easy to sign up) just loved how much money we earned.

Check out some great ideas on how to use your cash back:

  • Effectively lower your monthly bills by paying with your cash back rewards
  • Use the perks to help meet some of your new financial goals for 2012!
  • Save this FREE money and use it to budget for Christmas this year (it is coming, you know :) )

We encourage you to check out our last post where we gave you all the details on what Perkstreet is all about.  Throughout the year we’ll be sharing tips on how we used our card with necessary expenses to help pay our “mommy and our newborn son’s” hospital bills (while earning great rewards), how we immediately apply our rewards to budgeted bills with the end result of giving us more money to save this year, and other great ways we have found to use and earn more perks!

Our last post will give you all the details, but here’s a quick summary:

  • Earn 2% cash back on all non-PIN debit card purchases for 3 months (90 days)
  • After 90 days, earn 2% cash back on every non-PIN purchases when your balance is $5,000 or more or earn 1% cash back for balances below $5,000. Either way, you won’t find another bank in America that gives you more rewards on debit.
  • Get 5% PowerPerks at rotating monthly categories and merchants (this month on sport and athletic clubs (think New Year’s resolutions) and TurboTax (a favorite for us as well – more later!))
  • No credit check. No annual fee. It’s free to get and free to use.

Click HERE to go directly to PerkStreet FinancialSM and sign up for FREE!

Click HERE to check out our last post with all the details on how you can earn $600 cash back (or more!) this year from your everyday spending!

The PerkStreet FinancialSM Debit MasterCard® is issued by The Bancorp Bank pursuant to license from MasterCard International Incorporated.

Alex and Cassie

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A Quick Trip to the Store for Milk…and the Rest of the Story

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by thriftyal on December 28, 2011

We have to be honest.  The last few weeks we have not done a regular shopping trip due to the holidays and the hustle and bustle.  We just haven’t looked at most of our grocery coupons for a while.  Thankfully, for our stockpile at home from food on the shelf, fridge and freezers, we can go a few weeks without a real shopping trip.

We are getting back into the swing of things and back to normal life – but it is taking us time. :)   With that in mind, we had to do something that we warn against – running to the store to just get milk.

Is running to the store to just get milk the real danger we warn against?!  Well no, of course not.  But the idea that “I went in to just get milk and came out with everything except the kitchen sink” story will destroy a grocery budget faster than anything. It is that impulse buying, the this-sounds-good-too thoughts that has just “budget danger” written all over it.

However, this time it worked in our favor.  We have ran to the store just for milk a couple of times the last few weeks.  We stay on a one track mind and one goal in mind – JUST MILK, with two exceptions.  I do allow myself two places to wander during my quick trips – the produce section for discounted markdowns (we LOVE produce for cheap – we hit the jackpot on this one) and the clearance section for new items.  When I came home, Cassie and I were doing backflips – here’s why!

  • 4 gal milk marked down to $0.99 (on sale for $2.48) – $1.49 each savings – $5.96 total savings
  • 3 16 oz. organic baby spinach marked down to $1.99 (normally $4.99) – $3 each savings – $9 total savings
  • 1 16 oz. baby spinach (not organic) marked down to $1.99 (normally $3.99) – $2 each savings – $2 total savings
  • 3 organic Romaine heart leaves marked down to $1.49 (normally $2.99) – $1.50 each savings – $4.50 total savings
  • 2 organic baby Italian style mix marked down to $1.49 (normally $2.99) – $1.50 each savings – $3 total savings

After all is said and done, we paid $19.37 instead of $43.83 and saved 56% – and on mostly organic products!  Not bad for a quick trip to the store for milk! :)

Alex and Cassie

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Our Personal Gift-Giving Plan and a Merry Christmas to Your Family

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by thriftycas on December 24, 2011

Merry Christmas from our family to yours!

Just like last year, we wanted to share what we are personally doing and giving this year.  We share this for a few reasons:

  1. To get to know us even more (we don’t like being just known as a computer screen ;)
  2. To see the progression that our family is making in our own financial lives to become more and more financially disciplined and challenged in being better than before, and
  3. To inspire, encourage and generate more ideas in your own families finances both in the present and in the future.

First, we have been sharing with you our story of how we got so deeply in debt and in the new year we will start sharing how we got out (which includes our successes, failures, struggles, savviness, weaknesses, strengths, ideas and hard work).   But with what we have told you so far and what we plan to tell you about in the future, one thing remains ever true in our lives…… our weakness and temptation with attempting to justify expenses, make more purchases than necessary or making non-budgeted purchases, etc.  The Christmas season is no exception to testing this temptation that grew out of our past financial woes and burdens.

Because of these temptations and our past, we require ourselves to have a strict financial plan  at the beginning of each New Year to start planning for a budgeted and sane Christmas.  We will be talking about this more in depth when the new year begins so that your family can join us and start off with a healthier financial year.  But in brief, we determine a budget and contribute to our Christmas/complete holiday season (i.e. Thanksgiving to New Year) and set a little money aside each month.

This allows two main things to take place:

  • Keeps us out of debt and prevents us from overspending and
  • Allows us to have the designated funds available even early on in the year to catch deals that will allow us to “spread” more of those designated holiday funds!

But one thing that we have learned the last few years of sticking with this budget plan is that even with a small budgeted amount of money…you can go overboard with STUFF! Especially when we are hunting for deals like crazy!

So we still have the same budget we’ve had for the last few years for the holiday season, but we had decided early in the year that we want to cut back on “stuff,” buy less items for our children and make them better quality.  We came to this realization on Christmas 2009 when it was the first full-year we stuck to our budget (remember that although we have been The Thrifty Couple for over 7 years, it has been (and still is) a learning and growing process and many different stages to grow into) and ended up with soooo much stuff!

Sure, we didn’t overspend, we didn’t go deeper into debt (it was in 2010 we paid off our debt), BUT WE OVERBOUGHT!  We realized that we were not teaching our children true financial responsibility, contentment or even the true meaning of Christmas if we only focused on “look how much stuff we got for this small budget.”  They were spoiled – we had done it in previous years and we had done it again.  They didn’t learn anything from our “smart buying and budget stretching” if it ALL ended up under the tree and in their arms. We also thought about this from the perspective of our own struggles of wanting “stuff” earlier on in our marriage and how this could possibly be setting them up for the same attitude when they are adults and preparing them to experience many of the same financial woes that we experienced because of their desire for stuff.  We wanted to change those thoughts now.

With those thoughts then, over the last couple of years we’ve had the same Christmas budget (even though we have an extra child this year ;) ) and a different plan and goal.  We will only be buying them a few items and 1-2 toys each.  We wanted to get them higher quality for a great deal and the rest of the money would be used to bless others – not for more “stuff!”

There are 3 main themes to our Christmas buying this year:

  1. Quality over Quantity,
  2. Kohls Deals and
  3. Daily Deal Sites galore!

Here’s what we ended up with for each of our Children:

We have a 6-month old boy, 3 year old girl, 5 year old boy, 7 year old girl and 8 year old girl. They all received a spinbrush and PJs on our Christmas Eve to kick off the festivities.

First, our 7 and 8 year old girl – they are practically twins, so we usually buy similar things for them!

  • The Chronicles of Narnia from Christian Book Distributors for our 8 year old – (awesome story, she started reading these books this November from the library and then we saw this deal on CBD.com and knowing that she was enjoying them and there were 4 other kids so far behind her that probably will too, we decided to get this deal.  A few days later when she had her nose stuck in one of the borrowed books, she came up to us and said “I don’t care if I only get these books for my own for Christmas so I can read them over and over again.  I would be perfectly happy and thankful! We both looked at each other and we’re so thankful we had that insight because she got them for Christmas!
  • The Little House on the Prairie Book Set for our 7-year old from CBD on the same order and similar sale as The Chronicles of Narnia (we received FREE shipping because the order was then over $35).
  • Personalized Shirts for our 7 and 8 year old made to order to match personalized skirts that they made earlier in the year from Fashion Playtes.  THIS IS A REALLY COOL AND FUN ONE! Earlier this year, we picked up a couple of Fashion Playtes.com vouchers for 50% off through the daily deal site called FamilyFinds.com.  We then went on and our two eldest daughters were able to customize and design their very own long skirts (we LOVE the Amanda Style as it is very comfortable, long, modest, and feminine – things our girls and us love!).  They are great quality and so we were excited to get these vouchers and they had fun with it.  Here’s a couple of the skirts they made:

The top skirt is really beautiful, but it is an odd color – Geranium.   We were able to get plain shirts for cheap at stores around here to match all of their other skirts in many different colors, but the top one, we could only find black that would work.  So – through the daily deal site Mamapedia, we were able to get another voucher at 50% off.  I then went into the FashionPlaytes site and designed two of these shirts that they are getting to match their beautiful skirt!

Second, for our 5-year old son

Third, for our 3-year old daughter

Fourth – the adorable, smiley and just-so-cute 6-month old boy!

Fifth – We also got these family gifts:

So in the end, we feel like we bought simpler items as well compared to past years (we still know we can become even better about both of these still!), purchased higher quality and got all of it for a steal-of-a-deal by starting in January!

With that all in mind, we had quite a bit of our small budget left to use to “bless” others. In the past years, we usually grab 3-4 Angel Tree kids requests for Christmas.  This year, we were able to grab seven kids.   In addition, we also know two single moms – one with two kids and one with one child, that we decided to also surprise them with Christmas.

This is a picture of the items we donated this year.

First, the Angel Tree items were mostly all bought for a great deal – but Angel Tree can be a bit of a challenge in the sense that you only have less than a week normally to buy gifts for the kids.  They are also specific, so if they are not sale that week, then you have to make due!

So here’s how we fared for the 7 kids from the Angel Tree:

In addition, here what we got for the Single Mom and two kids and the third child of the other single  mom.  Since this was just something we were doing by surprise and specific requests were not needed, we were able to scour our gift bins that we talk about all throughout the year to be able to provide most of the gifts.  We have talked about the value of a gift bin many times when you find a super rock bottom deal on anything from apparel, toys, household and more – we encourage you to grab it so that you have a nice gift that doesn’t wreak havoc on your budget.

For the mom

  • 2 pairs of Chaps pants (these are normally around $55 and $75 each, but…. believe or not, we were able to get them for only $1 a pair a couple of years ago! Kohls was majorly clearing inventory and they had a bunch of racks with clothing priced at only $1 each item.  We grabbed a ton of this clothing for an Ebay business we were running at the time to sell in lots.  We have since set aside our Ebay business and now giving those items to those in need.  We plan to take the rest of the clothing to church for our friends to go through and the remains will be given to the homeless and women’s shelters.
  • A pair of designer sunglasses from a Graveyard mall deal a while back.  This was a set of 12 that we have been able to use as gifts!
  • A designer watch sold at a rock bottom price from No More Rack (I think we paid around $5 for it).
  • A bracelet from ShopLately site that we were able to get for FREE on a past promotion.
  • Slippers from an online group buying site that was also FREE.
  • A nice hand bag from The Limited that was pennies on the dollar.

For the 7 year old daughter

  • One of the $5 Toys R Us Teddy Bears
  • A Barbie doll that we paid $5 for from No More Rack (and we saw it in-store for $30 later)
  • Dress-up clothes and accessories (can’t remember where – it was in our gift bin too!)
  • Pictureka Card game that we got for FREE last year around Christmas (we stocked up on these and have quite a few in the gift bin ;) )

For the 1-year old boy

For the 3-year daughter of the other single mom

As far as gifts for our extended family, we did utilize the Daily Deal sites and Amazon quite a bit and also took advantage of photo deals we could find as these are the most beloved gifts!

So that is what we did this Christmas with our designated budget.   As we are celebrating our Christmas today (kids were happy it was 1 day earlier ;) , we are enjoying our family time together today and we pray that you and your family have a very Merry Christmas!

We hope you will join us in this upcoming New Year to save even more, give even more and to reform your finances to help you meet your goals for you and your family!

Alex and Cassie

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Come Join Us at the 2012 Family Economics Conference in Chicago

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by thriftyal on December 3, 2011

Family Economics 2012

We are excited and honored to announce that we have been invited to speak at the upcoming third annual Family Economics Conference!  We attended the first Family Economics where we were challenged and encouraged to be even more faithful with our finances as well as establishing solid economic and financial principles with our children and as a family.  In fact, it was that conference that really helped solidify our vision to have me come home from my corporate job and work together with our family and develop our own family-based economic.  We will be sharing practical ways and tips to help families save money and stretch their budgets in every area of life!

Are you ready to take your family’s economy to the next level? Is your family ready to start a family business, but you just don’t know where to start. Get your family equipped and inspired in Chicago at the third annual Family Economics Conference on March 8-10, 2012. This exciting event features a line-up of speakers who will equip your family’s economy for long-term success, including Kevin Swanson, Doug Phillips, RC Sproul Jr., Steve and Teri Maxwell, Dave Tucker, Erik Weir, Bill Roth, Don Hart, Alex and Cassie as The Thrifty Couple (that’s us! :) ), and more! In addition, you’ll be encouraged by the practical wisdom in the popular Q&A panels, where you will have opportunity to interact with the speakers. Just a sample of the topics to be addressed are:

  • Raising Sons to Provide
  • Household Budget Management
  • Marketing a Family Business
  • Household Chores and Time Management
  • The Duties of Dominion
  • Keys to Being a Successful Family Entrepreneur
  • Stories from Successful Family Start-Ups
  • A Special Proverbs 31 Track for Ladies
  • …and much more!

Also included in the price of registration is a family pass to the 2012 Annual Liberty Day Celebration on Saturday night after the conference (value of $59).

As a special for Thrifty Couple followers, you can save $20 off your family registration by using the coupon code ThriftyCouple when you register online. Click here to register now!

Alex and Cassie

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Our Personal 2011 Black Friday Plan and Tips To Maximize Deals

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by thriftyal on November 23, 2011

We love to share with you what we are doing in real life on the other side of this computer screen. We have been posting deals like crazy and will continue doing so to help you make the most of your budget and help you save as much as you can over the Christmas season! And although we are posting all of these deals, we ourselves are on the lookout for other things!

We have been careful the last several years about our Black Friday shopping.  As many of you know, we declared We’re Debt FREE nearly two years ago after a fast trip into loads of debt and the grueling road of getting out of itWith a more focused mindset, and a drive to stay debt-free,  Black Friday deals became about the practical for us: hard drives, video cameras, kitchen appliances and digital cameras, bed and bath necessities, etc. We shared the two items we were looking for last year too!

So with that in mind – we are looking for one thing this year: a high quality stove-top tea kettle! We have never owned one as we have been using alternative ways to make tea, but we drink a lot of tea and hot cocoa and we were visiting friends that had a tea kettle. Our kids loved the whistling and was a fun nostalgic kitchen item so we thought it would be great to get one this year.  It might be silly, it might not make sense – but that is what is on our list!

Part of the reason our list is so small, we buy Christmas presents throughout the year as we find the deals.  Another item that we had on our list was a new and nice digital camera.  Since the age of the digital camera, we were working our way out of debt and could not justify a nice one.   We had a cheap point and click which did it’s job.  But a new high quality digital camera with advanced features was also on our list.  We’ve been looking since the beginning of the year and we were setting money aside each paycheck to save for this big expense.  We found a deal last month and we had saved enough to cover it, so we didn’t have to wait until Black Friday.

So….. that is the Real World Thrifty Couple Style just on the other side of the screen that you are staring at ;)

So with that in mind, let us share some real world thoughts with you. We also have to personally be very careful with the holiday deals and Black Friday sales as old habits can be hard to break – and our old habits of spending fearlessly and foolishly.  On the other side of this screen, as a couple and as a family, we set strict rules as to how we are shopping, what we are looking for, how much we plan to spend and keep that close running tally so we don’t overspend.  It also takes a realization that if we cannot afford something, no matter how much of a good deal it is, it s not a good deal for us.

We want to encourage you in the same this Christmas season.  Our goal as The Thrifty Couple is to help you make the most of your budget, give to others and help you and your family meet your financial goals.  But we don’t want anyone to overspend, go into debt or spend unnecessarily as this causes so much heartache and pain later on down the road. 

Enjoy this season, stay on budget and go out there and nab the awesome deals with your plan and budget in hand realizing that we all have a different budget, a different plan and different goals.  We will be continuing to have fun researching and posting the best deals we can find for you too!

Be watching and join our fun savings party the next few days as we will have many Black Friday deals to share with you!!

Also, here are some links with tips and ideas to help you maximize your savings this year:

Plus visit our Everything You Need To Help You Save Money This Holiday Season to help you save even more!

Alex and Cassie

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Do You Get Rain Checks? You Should!

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by thriftycas on November 10, 2011

Have you ever asked for a rain check?  Do you ask every time that you can?  Well,  you really, really should!

But first, some of you may be asking…..”What is a rain check?”

A rain check is a voucher that extends the sale price of an item for you, so that you can return to the store on a different day, even after the sale ends and get that same item for the previous sale price.   What this means is that if your local grocery has ran out of an item that was on sale that week, you ask for this rain check and you can still get this same sale price in the future.

For example, let’s say that Cheerios are on sale for $2 this week.  You go to the store only to find them out of stock – instead of leaving sad and disappointed – head to the checkout or the customer service and ask for a rain check!  You can then return a couple of weeks from today and take your rain check into the store, find the Cheerios that were on sale for $2 but are now back up to $4 a box.  But at checkout, you hand over your rain check and they will adjust the price back down to $2.

It is not just the grocery store though! Many other stores also offer rain checks for items they sold out of and you were not able to get from clothing, electronics and more!

Why should I ask for a rain check?

Sales, saving money, and using coupons are becoming an increasingly popular activity for many households.  This means that there are many more people going after the same sale items from something small to even larger items.   This also means that those items disappear off the shelves very quickly or even very early on in the sale. So for this reason, rain checks are becoming even more increasingly necessary too!

For us, we are a big family! Running to the store at the drop of a bucket to grab the latest hot deal is just not going to happen; it makes saving money way too stressful! Instead, we go when it is convenient for us and if they happen to be out, then we will get our rain checks so that we can still get the same deal later on!

Another important reason to ask for rain checks is so that the stores themselves know that they are not keeping up with demand in hopes that they will increase their stock of sale items.  Honestly, the stores do not want to have to give out rain checks.  It hurts their bottom line as they cannot get those same items for the same discount that they did for the bulk order cost that they got for the sale! But many stores do not realize the impact their low stock  on consumers or not keeping up with demand has unless there is something to alert them – like issuing dozens of rain checks on the same item.

So the benefit is not just short-term gain, but potentially a long-term gain if the stores in your area are keeping better stock because of it!

The process:

The process of retrieving a rain check is very simple.  The hardest part is remembering to ask for one! We make a note on our shopping list to help us remember when we are in the store.  Or if you have coupons that you intended to use with that sale item, your left over coupons will give you the reminder!

Once you are at the checkout, just simply say, “You were out of this item, may I please get a rain check?”  The cashier is usually the one that writes up your rain check (some stores like Target do it all electronically!).  Then simply slip your rain check in your coupon binder/organizer with the coupons that go with it for you to use the next time you are in the store.

When they fill-out the rain check, they will ask you how many you want.  We recommend asking for them to write down a larger quantity, at least the amount equal to the number of coupons you have – and maybe a couple of more.  Some items already have a limit – so ask for the maximum quantity allowed for the sale to be written on your rain check. By doing this, you keep your options open.  When you actually redeem your rain check, you are not required to by the exact amount listed on your rain check.  So if you ask for 10 of something on your rain check, but then when you return, you decide you only want 5, then you can get just 5.  But by asking for a larger quantity, you prevent the opposite from happening where you ask for 5, then when you return to the store, you really wished you could have gotten 10!

Do rain checks have expiration date?

This answer is going to vary greatly from store to store and area to area.  In our area, most all of our stores do have an expiration date that is 2 weeks, 30 days and 90 days out. This means that we have to “redeem” our rain check before then.   However, this is a fairly recent change in our area, as we used to not have any expiration dates and so today there are still many stores and areas nationwide where the rain checks have no expiration dates.  Just learn the policies at your local stores (knowing that they too can change at any time!)

Can I Use Coupons with the Rain Check?

Absolutely! It is not any different than when you buy the item on sale and then use coupons! It is the same thing.  The only exception would be if the store themselves had a policy against it – but we have never ran into that, but we cannot say for sure nationwide at every local store.

So the next question you could be asking yourself is “what if my coupon expires before the item is back in-stock for me to redeem my rain check?”  This is a tough question and one that will happen on occasion.   If your rain check has no expiration date, then just hang on to it as the coupons for that item will most likely come out again soon, so then you can redeem your rain check with the coupons.

If your rain check has an expiration date and you think that there is a very good likely hood that your coupons will expire or that other coupons will not come out before your rain check expires, then you can raise this concern with customer service manager.  Honestly, they will probably not be able to do anything, but there have been a couple of times for us that there was an item we really wanted, it was gone and our coupons were expiring soon.  We explained to the Customer Service Manager our dilemma and they allowed us to “pre-pay” so that we can use our coupons! We just kept our receipt (with special notations and signature by the manager) and then returned to the store when they were back in stock.  We tell you this trick, but this is a very new and rare approach to couponing when an item is out of stock, but it is worth trying for an item you really want!

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