We spotted this “spot on” (according to Cassie) article on What Do Women Want? It Starts With This….” on the Mind Body Green site. It is such an excellent article and one that every couple should read.
Here’s a snippet:
Guys, I know your woman may seem like a mystery to you. You don’t know when she’s going to feel good; you don’t know when she’s going to feel bad. It’s true, we can be emotional creatures. Our feelings move and sway like the ocean; soft and sultry one moment, rough and wild the next.
Today I’ve got some good news for you: You don’t have to be at the mercy of her waves anymore. There are things you can do to bring your woman back to feeling good, and that that’s what I’m going to talk about today.
Let’s start with something that’s very important for you to know. If your woman is upset with you, you can be 99% sure it’s because she feels unloved in some shape or form.
A woman blossoms by knowing you care about her. She gets filled by feeling like she’s special to you. Your consideration, attention and love are her medicine.
Imagine your woman has a love tank inside her that dictates how she feels in any particular moment. When her tank is full, she has a lot of love to give; she’ll express this love freely in the form of laughter, kindness, and sweet gestures toward you. But as her tank drains, she begins to run on empty. The love that she has for you and the world slowly drains away.
If your woman’s love tank doesn’t get refilled often enough, well, that’s when her moodiness set in.
Let me give you some examples of how this plays out:
Did you forget to take out the trash? Sure, common mistake. But here’s how it computes to her: You aren’t paying attention to her needs, which can imply that you don’t love her.
Read the rest of the article on the Mind Body Green site HERE.
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